Nobody cuts a $50,000 check without trusting you.
And trust is always a byproduct of relationships.
My philosophy is that everything you do marketing- and sales-wise should orbit around intentional, one-to-one relationships. This should change how you approach every single thing in your business because your incentives shift. You never chase sales directly.
Every sale comes as a byproduct of that philosophy.
If you made a connection, you succeeded, even if that connection never turns into a sale. The ultimate goal of your outreach is to build a connection with someone. The ultimate goal of your content is to build a connection with a specific person. The ultimate goal of your paid media is to build a connection with someone. Everything orbits around connections and relationships.
At the beginning, this doesn’t scale, it’s very slow, and it feels like you’re swimming against the tide. Over time though, each one-to-one connection that you build equals a node and a bridge to a much larger pool of opportunities.
Your network is much stronger because your “root ties” are solid and based on actual relationships that are defensible outside any existing system.
Individual social platforms can come and go, but your relationships, if cultivated, can last and outlast your lifetime. You can lose your job or your company can go bankrupt, but an existing network is a platform that allows you to never start from scratch.